There are some advices from Robin Sharma in the new year 2010 and I think it's usefull for everybody. Let see what he adviced.
We're just about done 2009. On January, 1, 2010, you get a fresh 365 days. A new chance. To create the single best year of your life to date. Most will waste this opportunity and make the new year a repeat of the one just past. Sad. But true. But a few will wake up to the possibility and do 7 things that will ensure 2010 is the most unforgettable twelve months they have experienced yet. Want to be one of the fortunate few? Here's what to do:
Step #1: Evaluate 2009. Do a written story recording what went well this past year and, even more importantly, what areas you could improve on. Also list all your wins and as many high points as you can recall. Get a clear picture of how you showed up.
Step #2: Set Your Theme. Come up with a theme for 2010. It may be "The Year of Financial Freedom" or "The Year of Work Excellence" or "The Year of Fearlessness". But get a theme into a document you can start reviewing every week.
Step #3: Create a Mission. The next step is to develop a one paragraph mission statement and put it into this document. Clarity precedes mastery so the more clear your ultimate mountaintop for 2010 is, the greater your focus will be. And the most positive results you'll see.
Step #4: List Your Big 5. OK, now ask yourself this powerful self-coaching question: "What 5 things need to happen between now and December 31, 2010 for this to have been the single most successful year of my life to date?" Write down those five goals as simply and clearly as possible into this document.
Step #5: Sequence Your Big 5. Now break your Big 5 down into quarterly goals. Set 5 core goals for the first/second/third and fourth quarters of 2010 to ensure you nail your Big 5. Review these every week. Reflect on them everyday if you really want to win. Make these strategic objectives the sole focus of your life.
Step #6: Refocus Every Morning. Life's job is to distract you. Your job is to stay staggeringly focused on what's most important. Take 15 minutes during your morning resetting period to reflect on your goals, to envision your best moves and to track out a day that's productive, passionate and fun.
Step #7: Get Devoted to Learning. The #1 skill of super successful people is that they are relentless learners. While others are wasting time on low-value websites or watching mindless reality tv shows, they are listening to audio programs, studying books on leadership and success and basically creating a rich, beautiful and meaningful life. As you journey through each day of 2010, make the time to fuel your brain with ideas on excellence and creating your absolute best. Nothing's more important than that. And please remember that all it takes is a single idea to transform the way you lead and how you live.
According Robin Sharma
1. Doing exercise helping to improve your resting habit.
2. Doing exercise helping to increase your health.
3. Doing exersise helping to reject stress and worry.
4. Doing exercise helping to protect you from injury.
5. Doing exercise helping to have a healthy body.
6. Doing exercise helping you to reject the gastricism.
7. Doing exercise helping you to increase awareness by yourself.
8. Doing exercise helping to extend the life-span.
With the above benefits , why you don't like to do exercise ?
3. Let take truthful to be the foundation of life. Let live with justice, truthful rules in every situation.
4. Let accept the difficulty and hardship of life. Let work assiduous anytime you do your work. If you fail, try to re-start again.
5. Let have a passion in learning. The more you discover life and world, the more it's good for you. Let see it as a process for your experience.
6. Let live with joyfulness. Remember that a happy life cant lack confidence and smile.
It's hard to find a true happy if people not yet understand simple rules of life.
"Ultimate Gift" is a great book of Jim Stovall. It's a attracted journey for anyone who like to find the meaning of life. It's an emotional story. Through the book, we can learn these things :
1. A journey may be long or short, but anyway it must be started right after we find ourself.
2. At the last-minute of life, people are only remembered by the good things he or she did for others.
3. The value of work : When we love our work, we will not feel it is a work - must be done. It's a work we choose to do, not must to do.
4. The value of money : Money is just a tool, no more no less. It can be served for the good and can be served for the bad, or simply it cant serve for anything.
5. The value of friendship : The wealthy cannot be measured by the total of property which is gathered by a person, but it is showed by the number of friends that person has in his life.
6. The value of learning : Learning is a long journey for all life, and the target of that journey always move by the stage we had gone through.
7. The value of challenge : We only avoid the barrier by learning the good judge. But critical mind is able to have by experience.
8. The value of relationship by blood : Some people have borned in good families. Some others must find or make for himself that good families. To be a member in a family is a invaluable favor that we don't have to pay anything, except the love.
9. The value of laughter : The laughter is a magic remedy for all soul which need to be cured. Day by day our world needs that remedy more.
10. The value of dream : Dream is a manifestation that we beleive in the furture.
11. The value of giving : The best way for receiving more from this life is to give a part of yourself.
12. The value of gratefulness : When we thirst for getting more things from the life, let think about thing we had. Because of doing that, we will feel we have enough.
Its was a day on 14 April 1969. The weather was very nice. It’s a sun shine day , the sky was clear and without cloudy.
I was sitting and reading a book beside a big tree, in front of my eyes is a small river. I was time to time turning my eyes to look at the water flow. It was a very nice sight.
On the far side of the river, I saw an old man who was laying on the ground. I didn’t know whether he was sleeping or not .
I was watching one frog swimming inside the water, it made noisy by sending voices .The frog was on the river far side its seem talking me that’s why my eyes keep watching it. Then suddenly the frog swam to my side, at that time I thought it likes to join me. But when it just reached the river side, at that time I knew that it came to do a wonder thing.
The frog came for one scorpion .Yes, I saw a big black scorpion which was waiting the frog. I could feel they were talking each other. Then scorpion walked to ride over frog back , the frog again swam far the river side taking its friend (scorpion) to that side . I kept my eyes to see what will happen later and asking my self why the frog doing that ? why the scorpion went there ? Many questions in my mind at that time I kept silent, just like to know the end of this wonder sight .
When the frog was out of water, the scorpion left frog’s back, it was walking toward the laying man … I was stand for asking that man to take care from that big scorpion and before I sent him my voice, I stop… because there was a big snake moving to that laying man. The scorpion was hurry more than that snack and before the snake reached the man, the scorpion fight it. Ohhhhhhh ! I was just freezing at that time , I was watching a big fighting between the scorpion and the snack. Th scorpion like to prevent snack biting laying man .The man was still sleeping, he didn’t know what's happen around him .
At last, the fighting finished and the scorpion won after sending its needle inside snake body many times. After seeing the snake die, the scorpion walked back to river side, the frog was waiting, the frog set its body low, the scorpion jumped up the frog’s back. Then the frog swim to the next river side , it was the scorpion’s land, I thought. After the frog jump out of water, the scorpion jumped up on the ground and walked to its family’s place. The frog also was back to its old place on the far river side..
At that time I was wonder all the time. And I was talking my self …It’s a magic life.
If everyone in the world were peaceful, this would be a peaceful world.
Peace inside is important for everybody life , we will get a happiness life if we keep mind in calm and relaxed state.
Peace will create friendship, loving between people.
2. Happiness
Peacefull inside will bring happiness.
Giving happiness we will get happiness.
Happiness mean we have a purpose for living, good friends for sharing, family for caring.
3. Cooperation
Cooperation exists when people work together toward a common goal.
One who cooperates receives cooperation.
Cooperation will bring good relationship between people.
Where there is love, there is cooperation.
Courage, consideration, caring, sharing provide a foundation for cooperation.
4. Humility
Humility goes together with self-respect.
Humility is when i know my strengths but don't brag or show off.
Humility makes arrogance disappear
Humble person can stay happy inside while listen to others.
5. Honesty
Honesty is telling the true.
When we are honest we will clear inside.
A person wothy of confidence is honest and true.
Honesty is the best policy in life.
Honesty creates deep relationship.
6. Love
Any place have love, there is peace there.
When we have love, everything will be easy to do.
Love is caring, love is sharing.
The real law lives in the kindness of our heart. If our hearts are empty, no law or political reform can fill them - Tolstoy.
7. Respect
The first respect is to respect myself- to know what i am valuable.
Part of self-respect is knowing my own qualities.
Respect is knowing i am lovable and capable.
Respect is listening to others.
Respect is knowing others are valuable, too.
Respect for the self is the seed the gives growth to confidence.
Those who show respect will receive respect.
Part of respect is knowing i make a difference.
8. Responsibility
When we have responsibility we will everything with the best effort.
We must have responsibility with our life.
9. Simplity
Simplity means living with simple life, without artificial.
Simplity means acceptance the present, and making life as simple.
Simple person like to think clearly.
Simplity means understanding the value of material, even with small thing.
10. Tolerance
Tolerance is being open and receptive to the beauty of differencces.
Tolerance is mutal respect through mutal understanding.
Tolerance is the ability to face with difficult situations.
Those who know how to appreciate the good in people and situations have tolerance.
11. Unity
Unity will bring give strength to the team.
Unity makes big task seem easy.
Unity mean everybody look toward the same goal and
12. Freedom
Freesom resides within the mind and heart.
Freedom is a precious gift.
There can be full freedom when rights are balanced with responsibilities.
I think this lesson should be learned for all life. The world will be good place if everybody learns and practice this lesson everyday.
Today is a new day. Today is the day I start my first blog.